I ditched WINZ, flew to Bali for a YTT & bet $4K I didn’t have on my future because I knew to trust my desire. Let me tell you a story. It’s mid-2014. I’d been a single parent for just over three years, on the Sole Parent Benefit while building my business to support my …
New Zealand’s Best Transformational Festivals
Transformational Festivals – What are they? My definition is that the purpose of the festival is not just to entertain, or party, but also to have a transformative effect on participants. If there are workshops like yoga, meditation, personal development, growth-orientated, green-focused, breathwork or education-focused, then it’s likely a transformational festival. If the organisers share …
The Golden Ticket Game & The Gift Economy
I’m playing a new game for fun, and it involves golden tickets and the gift economy. Here’s how it works. There are five Golden Tickets, each with a unique serial number. Anyone who is in possession of a Golden Ticket can book a session with me in return for dāna. Every time a Golden Ticket …
Reflections on Operating Within the Gift Economy via Dāna
Oh dāna, that virtue referred to within Buddhism and Tantra teachings where we practice opening ourselves up to freely give with generosity and to therefore receive the benefits that accrue from this experience. I’ve deliberately been leaning into operating from dāna for a number of years now, as part of using a mixed model for …
A Five-Step Process for Devouring, Digestion and Dissolving of Samskaras
Our relationship to our emotional landscape is pivotal in the liberation process. Many of us come to the spiritual path with a desire to experience more happiness, more joy, more peace or more bliss. We’re chasing after desired emotional experiences. We often don’t realise how much of our life has been spent running away from …
The Unfolding of a Samskara Digestion
It’s rare that I don’t immediately turn inward when there’s a disturbance in the field, to meet what’s arising, no matter how painful. Yet that’s what happened this week. My partner had been fairly stressed over the last few weeks as he raced against a deadline to deliver a product for his business. This weekend, he …